Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Haiti

Many of you know that I was lucky enough to go to Haiti three weeks after the earthquake on a medical mission. I've been a little hesitant to post anything about this trip but Lindy and many friends insist, so here goes: I was actually planning on going during this same time before the earthquake hit with a group called International Aid Serving Kids. When the "event" (this is what the Haitians call it) happened, I didn't think we would be going because the group wasn't exactly organized for disaster relief. We had an awesome native Haitian as a leader and through connections he had in Haiti, we were able to get into the country and set up a clinic at Leogane, a city near the epicenter of the quake. Needless to say, it was a great experience. There is way too many stories to be told on a blog but I thought a few pictures could tell part of the story. First off, the destruction is incredible. Pictures really don't do it justice. It is a country full of rubble and chaos. Miles and miles of fallen buildings, people living in the streets, piles of garbage, tent cities and shanty-towns. When you are standing in the middle of a street and everything around you is destructed, your mind goes numb. Honestly, I don't think my brain can comprehend it.

This was driving through Port au Prince on our way to Leogane. We actually had to fly into the Dominican Republic and rented buses to drive 10 hours into Leogane. Port au Prince is a total cluster. I have no idea how people live there. Sadly, we Americans would point out a neighborhood of shanty homes and suspect that these were new since the earthquake but our guide pointed out that many were not new, just the extremely poor parts of town now experiencing tremendous growth.


This was everywhere. Lines down, piles of rubble and garbage, people living and selling stuff outside of their fallen homes/buisnesses.



Leogane, Haiti. This used to be a large open air market that is now little shacks and makeshift tents as homes. In Leogane, 80-90% of the buildings fell or are condemned. I spoke to hundreds of people while there and only one person was sleeping in their home. Most had set up shacks or tents outside their homes.


We actually set up clinic at and LDS chapel that had not fallen. There were hundreds living on the church property. This is one of the guys who we hired as security. He took us on a little tour and stopped at his house. This is his car and what remains of his house. He was stuck under the rubble for a couple hours but managed to crawl out on his own. There are no standing walls left of his two story house- the building next to his is condemned.


This is nurse Angie and one of the first kids we saw. He was stuck under the rubble for a few hours as well. A block landed on his right thigh/knee and he had a huge laceration. It was actually healing very well and the kid looked great. We were actually quite suprised at the people who came into our clinic-- not nearly as many infections or trauma as we were expecting. A lot of people with the more serious injuries had seen a doctor already.


This little girl had already been seen and nicely casted by another group of doctors shortly after the quake. We were able to replace her cast and give her this walker. She hadn't been able to get around, other than carried, since the cast was placed. This was just one of the little-big things we were able to do while there.


I just like this kid's hair. Despite the destruction after the quake, the people are the bigger story. Almost everybody lost somebody and their home. Despite this, they were remarkably happy and moving on with life. Many expressed hope. They are truly a beautiful people. The lady in orange was my interpreter. We actually had a generator with working fans but my interpreter was worried that the cool air would make her sick so I ended up sweating off a few pounds on the trip. She was awesome and had no appreciation for space-bubbles.

We had a couple dentists in the group who did some amazing work. Dr. Mike Richards was nice enough to let me yank a tooth on this poor guy. I have a new respect for dentists.


This is one of the little guys living on the church property. He loved the balloons we brought. Turns out, he also loved gum and asked me everyday and almost every hour--" Hey, hey..... whitey....gum?"



After clinic all day, we would go for walks around town to say hi to folks and see some of the damage. The kids in Haiti are incredible. They love their picture taken. This picture goes to show that karate is a universal language of awesomeness. Leogane is like a huge campout because everybody is sleeping outside in the street. They play in the street, sell stuff in the street, eat in the street, and really build their new temporary homes in the street. It is surreal.


This little girl is Wendy with her mom and brother. She was my girlfriend on the trip. She too was living on the church grounds with her mom, dad, and siblings. I almost packed her up and brought her back with me. She would find me each night and we flirted a lot.


Wendy playing doctor. She singlehandedly made it hard for me to leave.


Here is a little guy that had a block crush his right thigh during the quake. He actually had it x-rayed shortly afterword and told it wasn't broken. He came to clinic for decreased eating. I saw him limp into clinic so I took a look under his shorts and found this. It was a terribly infected crush injury. We had an orthopaedic surgeon in our group who had set up camp at a hospital a few miles away. We had this kid go over there and have the infection drained. He will probably do okay but will likely always have an infection in his bone that will occassionally flare and then drain through out his thigh for the rest of his life.


This is in Leogane on one of our walks. One day I went on a walk with a few nurses and supplies in one of the tent cities. People slowly filtered in to be seen. Most of them wanted me to look at their small children, all of whom I saw that day were well for the most part. It was encouraging to see the love that many had for their kids. Sadly, we also had some parents bring their kids to us at clinic and ask that we take them back to America with us.


Another cute little family that I saw in clinic. This woman lost her husband in the earthquake. Her main concern was that her daughter wasn't eating well since the quake (a pretty common thing among the kids-- both for lack of food and too much stress). The serious looking fellow is another interpreter. He is a teacher at an English school that no longer exists.
One last picture of the kids living on the church compound. I would try to go out and play with them each night. They were so fun. (See Wendy?)
I have way more pictures and stories but will save them for another time perhaps. It was surely a huge bite of humble pie and I feel very lucky to have gone over there to help, if only a tiny bit. Shortly after getting home I was wrestling Finn on our carpeted floor and couldn't help to think that I was in a different world. Thanks to Lindy for letting me go!

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Time for an Update

Even though February is the shortest month it has been the absolute longest month for me. It has been so busy for me that you would think that time would have just flown by, but no... My baby is now five months old which seems crazy to say, she is amazing. She loves to eat and is the happiest baby ever. She is in the 50th percentile for both weight and height, which is an amazing thing for our household. She is such a fun baby. She is starting to giggle and she smiles all the time. She has no desire to roll over yet. She can move to her side but that is as good as it gets! Finn, is pretty dang funny these days and keeps me on my toes. Jesse has taught him some tooting tricks, which Jesse is extremely proud of. He has some funny phrases. His new favorite thing is anything Super Mario Brothers. He loves playing it on the Wii. It is the first thing that he talks about when he wakes up and it is the last thing before bedtime. I am feeling extremely blessed these days, I have beautiful healthy babies, a warm home to come home to an amazing hard working husband and a great family. I got hit with some reality once Jesse got home from Haiti (which he will have to do a post about and show some pictures.) We just have things very easy and I am very grateful. Now on with some pictures!

My cute little Valentine!

Grandma Becky and Maggie came up to help me while Jesse was gone for a week in Haiti

Thank you so much Maggie for coming up and playing with my kids. Finn loves his cousin Maggie so much.

Larkie all ready for Church.

Sleeping babies.

Our beautiful blue eyed little girl.

Finn loves going swimming and since Jesse had the day of we took advantage of it. It is pure madness if I attempt that by myself. Lark didn't know quit what to think but she did good.



This is a little video of Lark, and for some reason it is fuzzy so I apologize.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Time is flying and Happy New year!

I am such a slacker these days when it comes to my blog. Two months have gone by and there has been so much going on that I feel a little defeated on where to begin and what to add in the short amount of time that I actually have to play on the computer. Here are some of the things that have been going on: The first thing is our little Finn is officially potty trained, and was amazing at it. It was one day and he only had one accident and has bee fine ever since. He goes to the potty all by himself and we just couldn't be happier. We have had a wonderful time during the holidays spending time with friends and family. Finn was so sweet during Christmas and it was so much fun this year to watch him open presents. Lark was awake long enough to watch the presents get opened and then fell fast asleep again! Lindy's mom slept over to wake up on Christmas morning with us which was very nice. We blessed our lady Lark, who is doing amazing. She is sleeping, eating and pooping...what more can parents ask for! Lindy celebrated a birthday and is now in the last year of her twenties! Jesse is slaving away at work (the story of his life) and is getting ready for a trip to Haiti coming up in February. I think that is about it for the Spencer fam. Get ready for the marathon of pictures!

My cousin took these next two pictures of Lark when she was 2 1/2 weeks old, and I am just now posting them. They are so sweet. I love them. Thanks Brandee!


My cousin Brandee also took our family photos the end of October so these next few are from that!



This is Finn's "Grinch" face. I love it. It is so cute and funny.

Daddy and lark gazing at the Christmas tree.

Getting Lark ready for her big day... Her blessing!

What a beautiful baby we have. Lark Carolin Spencer

Happy Family.

Finn showing off his new totally awesome undies! and his sexy bod!

Finn giving his sister some love (which he does ALL of the time!)

We went to the lights at Temple Square. It is always a beautiful sight.




I always have to show sleeping baby pictures because I love them and I think that there is nothing sweeter!


Lark and her favorite Aunt Trina at the Christmas Eve party down in Payson. Don't you love the matching shirts.

Larky and Santy Clause.


Finn and Santa.

The Angus Family Christmas Party.

Waking up on Christmas morning.

Finn was so excited.

We are loving the double chins going on!

Grandma Kris.

The kiddies in their Christmas Jammie's from Grandma Becky!

I was not going to wake Lark up so she just stayed in her clothes.

Lark and her Auntie Rachel

Finn and Kennedy having more fun with the wrapping paper than the presents!

Finn opening presents at Grandma Becky's house.

Our sweet little Lark

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The babes

Lark had her official two month appointment. She weighed in at a whopping 10 pounds 8 ounces and we couldn't be happier. It is so nice to have a baby that likes to eat for a change! She is such a good baby and we are enjoying every minute of her. Finn had his first official hair cut, which was very exciting. Lindy usually attempts to cut his hair but it is quite the ordeal, so Lindy decided to take him to Cookie Cutters. Finn loved it until she started to cut his hair and then he got really quiet. Finn was very brave and held very still while the nice lady finished. He got his balloon and candy and got all teary eyed as soon as we got to the car and said that he had pokies all over. It broke Lindy's heart. As soon as we got home we changed Finn's shirt to get rid of the pokies and all was well. Other than that nothing new to report.

I love sleeping babies

Bathing beauties. Finn loves to take a tub with his baby sister. he is so sweet to her and will help me wash her. It is very cute.

Finn getting his hair cut. He is being so brave.

Watching the "Grinch"

He would stare at himself in the mirror, he was probably thinking what in the heck is this lady doing to me